A
message to the young
generation:
Core Ideas for a
“Good Life”
Perspective
“We must think right
in order to speak
and act right”
Sadek
Jawad Sulaiman*
It is generally
assumed that we
indefinitely get
smarter with age.
That happens to be
not the case.
Modern science
indicates that,
notwithstanding
ongoing accumulation
of knowledge and
experience as we
advance in years, we
do not get any
smarter beyond
middle age. As
years go by the
brain capacity for
higher thought
declines, in step
with natural decline
in the activity of
neurons involved in
vision, hearing,
memory and other
cognitive skills.
No wonder, one might
say, that Einstein
(1879-1955) produced
his theory of
relativity at age
26, and that much as
he tried, could not
construct a field
theory in his more
mature years.
Newton (1642 - 1727)
lived to be 85, but
he had already
published his
Principia
(Mathematical
Principles of
Natural Philosophy -
1686) at age 44. He
in fact claimed that
he had understood
gravitation and
conceived of his
laws of motion when
he was 24. All that
had seemed so simple
to him that he had
told no one about it
for twenty years.
The rationale for
you, young people,
to consider: don’t
wait to hit your
sixties before you
claim your
intellectual prime.
Reach for it early
on.
Age, however, does
mellow us out, but,
again, it does not
make us wiser as a
matter of course.
The rough and tumble
of life, the
hardships, the
disappointments, the
regrets over
opportunities
missed, disciples
ignored, and
excesses indulged,
do take a toll.
They do blunt the
sharper edges of our
personalities and
subdue much of the
abrasiveness of our
younger years. If
such involuntary,
though timely,
moderation could
pass for wisdom I,
as one old man,
would gladly accept
the complement. But
wisdom is a far
superior achievement
of the mind. It
develops not at
random, but through
consistent
application of right
thinking to the
affairs of life. And
so here is the
distinction I draw.
We may not get
smarter beyond
middle age as our
neurological
capacity begins to
decrease, but we may
continue to become
wiser as the quality
of our consciousness
continues to
improve. It is in
this sense that
wisdom makes for
good life -- the
topic of this talk.
In the words of one
wise man, it is by
the bounty of nature
that we live; but of
wisdom that we live
well. The first
makes for life; the
second makes for
life that is good.
Wisdom and knowledge
are twins, though
not identical twins.
We may have
knowledge, yet lack
in wisdom. Wisdom,
in the words of
Indian thinker N.
Sri Ram (born 1889),
is not knowledge,
but lies in the good
use we make of
knowledge.
Knowledge, as
Francis Bacon
(1561-1626) noted
four centuries ago,
is power; and like
power, it can be
applied wisely or
unwisely. We can
build bombs with it,
or build bridges.
That being the case,
society risks much
when it entrusts the
power of knowledge
to an undisciplined
mind. To anchor
knowledge to ethics,
moral philosophy and
science should be
taught in tandem. We
need personal
integrity and
professional
competence
congruously linked
in every human
enterprise.
Paraphrasing Aldous
Huxley (1894-1963),
we would not want a
world in which
knowledge
accumulates and
wisdom decays. That
would not make for
good life.
How might we define
“good life” and how
might we attain it?
At the generic
level, the good life
paradigm is present
in all cultures,
though the means of
fashioning good life
is articulated
variously,
reflecting diverse
cultural experiences
and outlooks.
Socrates
(469-399B.C) thought
good life is
predicated on
self-understanding:
in his words: the
unexamined life is
not worth living.
Confucius
(551-478B.C) taught
that proper social
conduct generates
social harmony and
makes for good life.
His contemporary
Lao-Tzu (6thC.B.C),
the founder of
Taoism, also of
China, accentuated
the personal rather
than the social:
improvement, he
said, begins with
self-improvement.
The ancient seers of
India (writers of
the Upanishads -
8/9thC.B.C.)
taught that the
secret of good life
lies in nurturing a
mind that is
intellectually open
to all things yet
emotionally attached
to none. And
the great Buddha
(566-480B.C),
calling it
“nirvana,” said good
life was to be
attained
through removing
ignorance and
exercising right
thinking, right
speech, and right
action.
In the biblical
tradition, the call
to good life is
predicated on the
fear of God. This is
basic to Islam as
well. In either
tradition, fear of
God basically means
maintaining constant
vigilance against
slipping into
unethical conduct --
a caution that is
warranted by man’s
moral frailty. Deep
down it is a fear
for one’s own
welfare: fear of
falling into
self-destructive
behavior.
The Qur’an
specifically
mentions good life
as
the fruit of the
performance of good
works, from a
state of faith. It
suggests that one’s
ethics and quality
of life are
correlated. When one
does evil, the self
is diminished, and
suffers ill effects
within. Conversely,
when one does a good
deed, the self is
enhanced, and
happiness finds home
in a noble heart.
Christian literature
concurs. “Do not be
deceived,” said
apostle Paul, “God
is not mocked, for
whatever a man sows,
that he will also
reap.” I truly
believe such to be
the law governing
human affairs, apart
from all notions of
reward and
punishment after
death.
In reflecting on
what makes for good
life, I conclude
that right thinking,
or wisdom, is
foundational.
We must think right
in order to speak
and act right.
We must know in our
own mind that what
we say or do is
right, ere we seek
approval of society.
That means training
ourselves to think
in a way that is
intellectually
honest, logically
coherent, morally
sound, and
personally as well
as socially
conducive to harmony
and happiness. And
we must be willing
and able to defend
our convictions in
the face of
opposition, or
rejection, once we
have thus
objectively and
honestly ascertained
the veracity of we
have come to
understand.
Among the core ideas
that make for right
thinking, I will
briefly speak to you
of six. Taken
together, these
ideas broaden our
horizon, discipline
our outlook, and
educate our mind in
the possibilities of
good life for our
own selves and for
the others. And
while they may not
make us smarter in
some worldly way,
they do elevate the
quality of our
consciousness of
ourselves and of our
fellow humans,
thereby making our
relationships
healthier, happier,
richer, and more
mutually beneficial.
The first core idea
for a “good life”
perspective is the
idea of the one
humanity.
Here we realize the
commonality of the
human condition:
that we share the
same
characteristics,
sentiments, and
needs; that we
partake of the same
fund of knowledge,
reason alike,
cooperate, strive
for similar goals,
and instinctively
submit to the same
moral code. Here we
learn that the
principles and
values that sustain
and nurture us as
individuals and
societies are the
same as well. Here
we discover that the
negative factors
that degrade our
lives, diminish our
worth, and impede
our progress are not
different for any
individual or
society. And here we
are reminded that
unchecked negativism
against one another,
in thought, word,
and action,
ultimately plunges
us all in conflict
and chaos.
Notwithstanding the
diversity of our
thought, which is so
amply demonstrated
in our various
religions,
philosophies, and
works of literature
and art, we remain
one species. What
is common about us
at the bottom is far
greater than what is
varied about us at
the surface. We are
in essence one
genetic pool, one
intellectual
consciousness, one
bundle of
sentiments. And we
have come together
along the same
evolutionary tract,
over a long period
of time.
We all thrive on
freedom and dwindle
in serfdom. We
expand with
knowledge and
wisdom, and waste
away in ignorance.
We are nourished by
the same foods and
sickened by the same
toxins; attacked by
the same diseases
and cured by the
same medicines. We
laugh and cry for
the same reasons.
Love enlivens us,
apathy stifles us,
and rancor poisons
our days. We care
for our families;
beyond that, we like
to be of service to
fellow humans.
There is something
intrinsically and
substantively human
about us all, and
that is what makes
us one.
The second core idea
for a “good life”
perspective is the
idea of liberty as a
human birthright.
“By what right have
you enslaved people
since they have been
born free from the
wombs of their
mothers?” asked
Islam’s Second
Caliph, Omar (Ruled
634-44), outraged at
the practice of
slavery in his time.
To renounce liberty,
said Rousseau
(1712-1778) is to
renounce being a
human. This is so
basic that a day of
liberty is to be
preferred to an
eternity in
bondage. Patrick
Henry’s famous
battle cry: “Give me
liberty or give me
death” to this day
resonates with us
because it so
quintessentially
states the ultimate
choice that has to
be made if such is
forced upon
us.
Liberty is not a
license from all law,
or a release from
every constraint.
Nor is it the
prerogative of a
privileged few. The
wise see liberty as
an ethical and
equitable concept:
doing no harm to
others, and allowing
others as much of
freedom as you and I
allow ourselves.
Freedom of belief,
speech, assembly,
and legitimate
choice are integral
to liberty. Where
liberty is
suppressed
civilization
retreats. Sometimes
this happens in a
seemingly harmless
way. United States
Justice Louis
Brandies
(1856-1941), writing
from the bench in
1928, made this
astute observation:
“Experience,” he
said, “should teach
us to be most on our
guard to protect
liberty when the
government’s
purposes are
beneficent. Men
born to freedom are
naturally alert to
repel invasion of
their liberty by
evil-minded rulers.
The greatest dangers
to liberty lurk in
insidious
encroachment by men
of zeal,
well-meaning but
without
understanding.”
Needless to say that
there is no dearth
of such zealots
today, especially in
the ranks of
government and
religion.
The third core idea
for a “good life”
perspective is the
idea of equality.
The best of
relations between
people develop when
they interact as
equals, and the
worst when one party
tries to impose its
will on the other.
People of course do
differ in a great
many ways, and so
their achievements
vary as a matter of
course. To the
extent that their
rewards ensue from
their effort and
merit, fairness
prevails and society
benefits. But where
fortunes are
arbitrarily derived
from privilege,
effort and merit are
undermined and
society stands to
lose. Paraphrasing
another wise man: a
society that places
the privileges of
its few before the
rights of its many
loses both at the
end of the day.
By equality, then, I
mean equal status
before the law,
equal citizenship
rights, and equal
opportunity for
personal
advancement.
Achieving this
entails removing all
extant political,
social, and economic
stratification.
Talent is spread far
and wide in every
society, and by
leveling the field
of opportunity we
immeasurably improve
the chances of
bringing our best
national talent
forward.
Writing in 1869
England, John Stuart
Mill wondered why
would we not want to
live as equals.
“The true virtue of
human beings,” he
wrote, “is fitness
to live together as
equals; claiming
nothing for
themselves but what
they as freely
concede to everyone
else; regarding
command of any kind
as an exceptional
necessity, and in
all cases a
temporary one; and
preferring, whenever
possible, the
society of those
with whom leading
and following can be
alternate and
reciprocal.”
Contrast this noble
thought with the
crude notion of
clinging on to power
until death, then
bequeathing it to a
kin waiting in the
wings.
The fourth core idea
for a “good life”
perspective is the
idea of justice.
Justice must be
upheld in every
human activity,
public or private,
big or small.
Without justice no
human transaction
can be validated as
right or
beneficial. The
accumulation of
injustice leads to
the disintegration
of society. The
perpetrators and
victims of injustice
both suffer, the
first by morally
damaging themselves
by being unjust, the
latter for failing
to resist injustice
collectively at the
outset. With justice
societies are helped
to endure and
prosper.
Justice is the
guardian of liberty,
and whenever the two
are separated, wrote
Edmond Burke
(1929-97), neither
is safe. Justice is
above party,
friendship, and
kindred. This is
universally
acknowledged in
civilized society.
In the Qur’an we are
admonished to stand
up for justice, as
witnesses to God,
even against
ourselves, or our
parents or our kin,
and whether it be
against rich or
poor, friend or foe
(4:135; 5:9).
From time immemorial
to our contemporary
notions of human
rights, justice has
stayed a central
theme in human
affairs. The great
teachers of
humankind have
placed no greater
emphasis on any
other aspect of the
moral imperative.
“Of all the things
of a man’s soul
which he has within
him, said Plato,
“justice is the
greatest good, and
injustice the
greatest evil.”
“Justice is
indiscriminately due
to all, without
regard to numbers,
wealth, or rank,”
wrote United States
Chief Justice John
Jay in 1794. Today,
as invariably as in
the past, the
greatest impediment
to justice is
despotism whose
motif is force, not
equity. Despotism
begets privilege,
which violates
justice by seizing
for a few that which
rightfully belongs
to all.
The fifth core idea
for a “good life”
perspective is that
of the dignity of
the human individual.
It means, in the
words of Emmanuel
Kant (1724-1804),
“every man is to be
respected as an
absolute end in
himself; and it is a
crime against the
dignity that belongs
to man to use him as
mere means to some
external purpose.”
It means, moreover,
that while a person
may be convicted and
punished for a civil
or criminal offense
under the law, he or
she should never be
condemned or
humiliated. It also
means that while we
may oppose each
other’s opinion we
may not disparage
each other
personally; that
while we may fight
each other’s
position we may not
touch each other
with harm.
In the Qur’an there
is a categorical
assertion of the
dignity of man. “We
have honored the
offspring of Adam,”
says the Qur’an,
speaking of humanity
at large, without
distinction based on
religion, race, or
sex (27:70).
Elsewhere, the
Qur’an posits all
persons on equal
footing before God,
the closest to God
being the ones most
righteous in His
eye. (49:13). Those
piously admitting we
are equal before
God, yet insisting
we are not equal
among ourselves, do
indeed reveal a
remarkable lack of
consistency.
The sixth core idea
for a “good life”
perspective is that
of democratic
governance.
The first democratic
governments were
established in a few
Greek city-states
during the sixth and
fifth centuries
B.C. They did not
last long. By
Aristotle’s time in
fourth century B.C.
they were extinct.
Not until the
political
revolutions of the
late seventeenth and
eighteenth centuries
did the democratic
impulse surface
again. In England,
in 1689, parliament
gained supremacy
over the king; the
rule of law replaced
the rule of men. In
the new world, a
century later, the
American Declaration
of Independence
proclaimed “all men
are created equal,”
and shortly
thereafter, the
United States was
founded on a
constitution that
firmly posited
sovereignty in the
people, the
constitution’s first
words being: “We the
people..”
Democracy is
premised on the
sovereignty of the
people, the
supremacy of the
laws they
collectively make
and commit to obey,
and the equal status
of all citizens
before those laws.
In non-democratic
governments, there
is no equal status
before the law, and
no law that is
superior to the
will, or the whim,
of one or more men.
In a theocracy, all
law is inferior to
the sacred text,
whose guardians, the
clergy, thereby
become guardians of
society as well.
Democracy means
public participation
in deciding public
business through
representative
government. The
participants are all
citizens of voting
age: one person, one
vote, exercised
freely and
periodically through
secret ballot. Only
through election can
legitimate authority
be asserted for any
echelon of pubic
office. Where
authority is not
derived from
election, it remains
arbitrary and
authoritarian.
Besides
representation
through election,
democracy entails
separation of
powers, checks and
balances between
co-equal branches of
government, and
constitutional
protections for
civil rights and
civil liberties. It
also involves
judicial review,
legislative
oversight,
transparency, and
accountability. To
appreciate democracy
as such, and to
actually practice it
as such, are two
different things. I
earnestly hope the
young men and women
of Oman, in their
own good time, will
both appreciate and
practice democracy.
I also hope young
men and women
worldwide will
support and
encourage democratic
progress
everywhere.
These, then, are the
six core ideas that
I believe make for a
“good life”
perspective: that
humanity is one;
that liberty is
indispensable; that
equality is
essential; that
justice must
prevail; that human
dignity must be
protected; and that
democratic
government ought to
become the political
norm
everywhere.
By deepening our own
appreciation of
these ideas and by
discussing them with
the others, we may
build and
disseminate a
perspective that is
humane and wise. In
this perspective,
good life is not
predicated on
affluence,
influence,
privilege, or sheer
smartness. It does
not entertain pomp,
circumstance,
prestige, or
grandeur. Instead,
it is a life
experience that is
simple and modest,
rich and graceful.
It is a mode of
thought that is
informed by
knowledge, anchored
to ethics, and
illumined by
wisdom.
Our great teachers
from the past, in
all nations, taught
and acted from such
a perspective. They
lived ethically, and
encouraged everyone
around them to live
ethically as well.
From Hammurabi’s law
of 18th Century
B.C., through all
the great prophetic
missions, to the
Declaration of
Universal Human
Rights of the mid
Twentieth Century
(adopted by the
United Nations
General Assembly on
December 10, 1948),
to our contemporary
codifications of
human rights and
civil liberties,
theirs has been one
consistent effort:
to establish and
uphold the moral
imperative in the
human
experience.
From these teachers,
past and present, we
learn that human
progress is more
than merely the
expansion of raw
knowledge, the
production of
material wealth, or
the acquisition of
military power;
that, beyond
knowledge, wealth,
and power, it is
moral growth that
makes us better
humans capable of
good life. It is
through moral
awareness that we
come to realize that
enlightened
self-interest and
public good are
ultimately
inseparable; that we
err when we think of
the one as unrelated
to the other.
Through it we learn
that there is no
gain to be realized
from an immoral act,
only a negative
return that strikes
at the victim,
society, and the
perpetrator himself;
that any time we
diminish ethical
standards we
diminish ourselves;
any time we ignore
morality, we do so
at our own peril;
that, on the other
hand, a moral act,
intentioned and
engineered to be
good and right,
benefits both the
receiver and the
giver; beyond that,
it benefits society
and posterity as
well.
And so, in a final
word, I invite you,
young people, to
claim your human
legacy in its best
content and form.
The ideas I just
enumerated represent
the best offerings
from all nations and
cultures. Claim
and help spread
these ideas, because
they cleanse us of
prejudice, bigotry,
rancor, malice, and
the like, and
thereby make us more
humane and wise.
Let knowledge be
your informant,
wisdom your guide.
And live ethically
and well, for good
ethics and good life
are inextricably
joined.
*Class Presentation
at the
American-British
Academy, Muscat,
Oman: Saturday,
June 7, 2003
**
Mr. Sulaiman is the
Chairman of Al-Hewar
Center’s Advisory
Board and former
Ambassador of Oman
to the United
States.